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"SAFE & SEXY" R&B PLAYLIST

3/16/2017

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QUESTION:
Hey Roni!... I've been meaning to contact you for a question... what are you're thoughts on listening to secular R&B music to help get in the "mood"? Is it okay or should we refrain?

ANSWER:

Dear Pure Heart,

Your email brought a smile to my face.  I am so blessed by your desire to honor the Lord in all areas of your life.  You are such a gem!  The world needs MANY more young ones like you.

The short answer is “yes, it’s ok,” but I would add a word of caution.  Like all things in the world, we must use the guidance and wisdom of the Holy Spirit as we make our selections.  There are some great R&B songs with lyrics that bring honor to romantic love, and that will bless your marriage.  As you know, there are also songs that dishonor women, and marriage, etc. so I would obviously refrain from those.  For some people, with a history of sexual sin where certain R&B/Hip-Hop music was involved, it would be wise to refrain from that type of music altogether.  Why continue to listen to things that will remind you and potentially tempt you back into sin when there are other great options available (e.g., instrumental)?

I do think that it is important to "set the mood” and you can most definitely find some great, "safe & sexy" R&B songs to help you do that.  Here are a few songs that I suggest.  These songs do not contain derogatory statements or expletives, but this does not imply endorsement of the artist or all of their music.

“Adorn”  Miguel
“Sexual Healing”  Marvin Gaye

“Bed” J Holiday
“Speechless”  Ciara
“Tasty Love”  Freddie Jackson

“Wet The Bed”  Chris Brown  *Note: These lyrics may make you blush, but they actually remind me of Song of Songs.  ;-)
“Seems Like You Ready”  Ty Boogie
“Stroke You Up”  Ty Boogie  *Note: Blushing may ensue…  ;-D
“Let’s Make Love”  Keri Hilson
“All Of the Night”  Kelly Rowland
“Can You Handle It”  Usher
“Do Me Now”  K. Roosevelt
“Sweet Love”  Chris Brown
“Good Kisser”  Usher

“Birthday Sex”  Jeremih
“Sex Therapy”  Robin Thicke
“Pony”  Ginuwine


Love you my sister.  Have fun!  ;-)
xxo Roni
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"Milkshake" Music Maven

12/12/2016

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Dear Roni,
I need... (Music) with a female singer...
"
Milkshake" and similar seems to be the ticket. Ha!

Dear "Milkshake" Music Maven,

I do have some ideas for your “Milkshake” playlist (most up-tempo, a few slower).  As always, these song suggestions are not an endorsement of the artist or their personal beliefs. They are simply suggestions of songs with a beat and theme that is conducive to an uptempo intimate dance. You should always look for the “Radio Edited” versions if applicable.  Let the Holy Spirit be your ultimate guide in what you should or should not play.

"Get Ur Freak On”  Missy Elliott
"Gimme That”  Ciara
“Whatever U Like”  Nicole Scherzinger
"G Is for Girl (A-Z)” Ciara
“Bang, Bang”  Jessie J, Ariana Grande & Nicki Minaj
“Ohh Ahh”  Danity Kane
"Shake Your Pom Pom”  Missy Elliott
“I’m Dat Chick”  Kelly Rowland
"Pretty Girl Swag”  Ciara
"If It's Lovin' That You Want" (Bonus Track)  Rihanna
“Slow Dance” Keri Hilson
“Make Love”  Keri Hilson
"Lay it on Me" (feat. Big Sean)  Kelly Rowland
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Have fun!
xxo R ;-)
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Desperate for Decent Dance Music?!

1/20/2016

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Hi!!! Miss you and class! 
Was trying to find some new songs...Can you pls share your lists when you get a chance? ...I have searched for fun stuff, but trying to work around profanity and stripper metaphor has been a job!
Thank you!
P
Dear Mrs. "Desperate for Decent Dance Music,"
You are not alone in your quest!  Don't get discouraged; there are definitely some sensible, sexy songs out there to set the proper mood for your intimate time with hubby.   I have compiled a short list here of varied artists and genres for you and all of the other sexy sound seekers out there.  
Please note: These songs have been screened for potentially offensive lyrics/themes and content, but this does not infer personal endorsement of the artists and their entire library of music.  
Stay tuned for "Married Lovin' & Dancin': Soundtrack 2"...  In the meantime, may your dancin' nights lead to lots of lovin'!
Email Questions/Comments to: Ronilynn@OnePureLove.org​
xxo Roni ;-) 

​    Married Lovin' & Dancin’: Soundtrack 1

          Song  /   Artist  /   Album  /   Genre

  • Bed  /  J Holiday  /  Back of My Lac’   /  R&B
  • Fever  /   Beyoncé  /  Fever - Single   /  Pop
  • Loosen Up My Buttons  /  The Pussycat Dolls   /  PCD  /   Pop
  • Pink Pussycat  /  The Del-Rays  /  Camp Burlesque (OST)  /   Rock
  • Like You'll Never See Me Again  /  Alicia Keyes  /  As I Am  /   Blues
  • Dance For You  /  Beyoncé  /  Deluxe Edition  /  Pop
  • Make Love  /   Keri Hilson  /  In A Perfect World  /   R&B
  • Syrup & Honey  /  Duffy   /  Rockferry  /   Soul/Pop/Rock
  • Adorn  /  Miguel  /  Kaleidoscope Dream  /  R&B/Soul
  • Slow Dance  /  Keri Hilson  /  In A Perfect World  /  R&B
  • Sex Therapy  /  Robin Thicke  /  Sex Therapy - Single  /  R&B/Soul
  • You Can Leave Your Hat On  /  Joe Cocker  /  Cocker  /  Rock
  • Let's Get It On  /  Marvin Gaye  /   Let's Get It On  /  R&B/Soul
  • Mirror  /  Ne-Yo  /  In My Own Words  /  R&B/Soul
  • So Good  /  Day26  /  Forever In a Day  /  R&B/Soul
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    Dear Ronilynn is written by Ronilynn Brissey-Ramos, the founder of ONE PURE LOVE.
    EMAIL YOUR QUESTIONS TO:
    RONILYNN@ONEPURELOVE.ORG

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